We can help others find the path to wholeness through the circumstances they face, but we must remember God’s way prepared on their behalf is for them to discover. We can help them in that discovery process by affirming their gifts and talents and encouraging their demonstration of love and forgiveness. We cannot find the path for them and advise them as to where or how it is to be found. Each of us must find our own way. Instead, we can share our experience finding the path God prepared through our darker days. We can offer hope as we reassure them that no one is abandoned by God. We can offer strength as we are faithful in our relationship with them. And, most importantly, we can offer silence as we listen attentively instead of offering advice.
It’s reassuring to know that even when I do not feel particularly spiritual or enlightened I can be of service by remaining quiet. My willingness to offer an attentive ear may be the greatest gift I offer today.
Eyes To See 