One of the blessings that come with economic challenges is the way such times force us to step back and evaluate how we might simplify our obligations, our schedules, and our relationships. We start by looking for ways to save a few dollars making lunches and eating meals at home, then we find ways to get by with access to fewer channels on TV or fewer minutes with our mobile phone service. We consider getting by with a smaller car or taking public transportation. When we first start looking for ways to save money, we usually do so out of anxiety for the future, and the process usually doesn’t feel at all pleasant.
If we are fortunate enough to be amongst those who have steady employment and manage to keep a roof over our heads and food on the table, we begin to realize that something good is coming from our efforts to simplify. Meals at home mean more time spent with people we love. Fewer channels on TV means more time spent reading or conversing with others. We begin to realize that some of our luxuries have drawn us away from the most meaningful parts of life–relationship with others.
Hard times have a way of renewing our awareness of how good it feels to be generous. Those of us who are fortunate enough to come through these tough economic times with our lives intact find that reducing our spending has freed us to care for others in their time of need. We remember, or in some cases we discover how good it feels to give others a hand up in challenging times. We contribute to a stronger sense of community that benefits all.
If I am fortunate enough to have a roof over my head and food in the pantry, I will count my blessings even as I consider how I can reduce spending and simplify my life to assure than I can get through the challenges of an economic downturn. I will reinforce my commitment to be a “good news” person as I reconnect with those I love and extend myself to those in need.
I very much enjoyed this article. Your writing is so very true during this time of our econimic hardships in this country and all over the world. I have spent less on a lot in my life and have learned that I really didn’t need the materialistic items anyway and I would rather be with the company of others anyway!
One great trick that I have pushed out to my friends this year more then ever is bringing back the 70’s and 80’s entertaining of “potluck”, it’s fun, creative-you can taste many dishes and the host/hostess does not have to spend much money on the party that they are giving!
Here is a great “Potluck” recipe to share with your friends and family:
Artichoke Parmesan Dip
Ingredients:
1-15oz can of artichokes
8 oz. cream cheese, softened
1/2 cup mayonnaise
1 cup parmesan cheese 2 tsp.
dry dill 2 tsp.
chpd fresh garlic 1/4 tsp.
cayenne pepper, just a dash for those who are afraid
1 small jar of chopped pimento
Instructions:
Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Drain artichokes and squeeze excess liquid. Chop the artichokes coarsely and set aside. Whip the cream cheese until light and fluffy. Mix in the mayonnaise until completely incorporated. Then add all the other ingredients and mix, just to combine. Place in an ovenproof baking dish and bake for 15-20 minutes, until lightly browned. Remove and serve warm with toasted bread and crackers.